Comments on: The difference between beautiful, cute, sexy and attractive http://yolearnchinese.com/archives/the-difference-between-beautiful-cute-sexy-and-attractive This is my blog about my journey to Asia and all the steps I take on my way. Wed, 08 Sep 2010 11:25:09 +0200 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Junjie http://yolearnchinese.com/archives/the-difference-between-beautiful-cute-sexy-and-attractive/comment-page-1#comment-17014 Junjie Sat, 28 Nov 2009 08:57:58 +0000 http://yolearnchinese.com/?p=1102#comment-17014 Sure, I'll ask her at which day she has time. Then all 3 of us will go to the bar. She can have a look at the handsum boys then :o Sure, I’ll ask her at which day she has time. Then all 3 of us will go to the bar. She can have a look at the handsum boys then :o

]]> By: Aremonus http://yolearnchinese.com/archives/the-difference-between-beautiful-cute-sexy-and-attractive/comment-page-1#comment-16975 Aremonus Fri, 27 Nov 2009 12:34:53 +0000 http://yolearnchinese.com/?p=1102#comment-16975 haha, we gotta do that someday, yet you've gotta talk to my girlfriend about that issue first xD haha, we gotta do that someday, yet you’ve gotta talk to my girlfriend about that issue first xD

]]> By: Junjie http://yolearnchinese.com/archives/the-difference-between-beautiful-cute-sexy-and-attractive/comment-page-1#comment-16965 Junjie Thu, 26 Nov 2009 22:42:19 +0000 http://yolearnchinese.com/?p=1102#comment-16965 I'm not saying that she might act untouchable, but rather that her beauty makes me kind of uncomfortable starting a conversation with her. Maybe You have experienced this in a bar or other social setting before. You are there and a number of women. It's easy to start a conversation with some of them, however with others I get thoughts like: "Damn, what do I say.... " It's not her fault to be beautiful, but people tend to act weird around people they are attracted to. The other thing You mentioned is brains. I totally agree about that, but it was not part of this post. We can talk about the attractiveness of a healthy brain some other time. Bottom line: Because You have a different taste compared to me (at least regarding the superficial features), You would be my ideal buddy for girl hunting in the bar ;) I’m not saying that she might act untouchable, but rather that her beauty makes me kind of uncomfortable starting a conversation with her.

Maybe You have experienced this in a bar or other social setting before. You are there and a number of women. It’s easy to start a conversation with some of them, however with others I get thoughts like: “Damn, what do I say…. ”

It’s not her fault to be beautiful, but people tend to act weird around people they are attracted to.

The other thing You mentioned is brains. I totally agree about that, but it was not part of this post. We can talk about the attractiveness of a healthy brain some other time.

Bottom line: Because You have a different taste compared to me (at least regarding the superficial features), You would be my ideal buddy for girl hunting in the bar ;)

]]> By: Aremonus http://yolearnchinese.com/archives/the-difference-between-beautiful-cute-sexy-and-attractive/comment-page-1#comment-16962 Aremonus Thu, 26 Nov 2009 20:34:17 +0000 http://yolearnchinese.com/?p=1102#comment-16962 Personally, I find Wang Zifei the most attractive among them. But to me, a very important factor of attractiveness are also inner values (and I mean it! xD). For me, intelligence in a woman is crucial. I honestly don't feel as attracted by women I can't have a real conversation with, and I also don't like unreliable women. So honestly speaking, I am a quite choosy person^^ Anyway, I was lucky and found a girl who perfectly fits me, so I don't really need to worry about that. I don't really agree on your definition on beauty. I would consider a woman, who is (and acts) untouchable, rather to be arrogant than to be beautiful. And thus also don't feel attracted by her. Anyway, I am not easy to think a woman is untouchable; but I am quite sure that behind every facade, there's a human being. And if a lady thinks she was so beautiful that she won't talk to me, I'd immediately know that she's definitly not my kind. Personally, I find Wang Zifei the most attractive among them. But to me, a very important factor of attractiveness are also inner values (and I mean it! xD). For me, intelligence in a woman is crucial. I honestly don’t feel as attracted by women I can’t have a real conversation with, and I also don’t like unreliable women. So honestly speaking, I am a quite choosy person^^
Anyway, I was lucky and found a girl who perfectly fits me, so I don’t really need to worry about that.

I don’t really agree on your definition on beauty. I would consider a woman, who is (and acts) untouchable, rather to be arrogant than to be beautiful. And thus also don’t feel attracted by her.
Anyway, I am not easy to think a woman is untouchable; but I am quite sure that behind every facade, there’s a human being. And if a lady thinks she was so beautiful that she won’t talk to me, I’d immediately know that she’s definitly not my kind.

]]> By: Junjie http://yolearnchinese.com/archives/the-difference-between-beautiful-cute-sexy-and-attractive/comment-page-1#comment-16960 Junjie Thu, 26 Nov 2009 18:19:11 +0000 http://yolearnchinese.com/?p=1102#comment-16960 A feminist could spice up the comments section, so why not ;) A feminist could spice up the comments section, so why not ;)

]]> By: MKL http://yolearnchinese.com/archives/the-difference-between-beautiful-cute-sexy-and-attractive/comment-page-1#comment-16955 MKL Thu, 26 Nov 2009 13:35:31 +0000 http://yolearnchinese.com/?p=1102#comment-16955 I don't think there's any definition of beauty. It's only opinions. And all these things are intertwined anyway. My girl is the most beautiful, gorgeous and cute girl to me, but for someone else, she might be just average. Same goes for every woman. Generally speaking, I like all kinds of women and those who radiate self-confidence and some positive energy would appeal to me. I don't go into definitions when it comes to beauty. I'm just enjoying it. :) Ps: That comparison to a pet is a bit off. Hope no feminist comes across this post. I don’t think there’s any definition of beauty. It’s only opinions. And all these things are intertwined anyway. My girl is the most beautiful, gorgeous and cute girl to me, but for someone else, she might be just average. Same goes for every woman.

Generally speaking, I like all kinds of women and those who radiate self-confidence and some positive energy would appeal to me. I don’t go into definitions when it comes to beauty. I’m just enjoying it. :)

Ps: That comparison to a pet is a bit off. Hope no feminist comes across this post.

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