Place 1: 林柯彤 representing 意大利

Is 林柯彤 there to support the Italian team or to distract them? Pigtails for the win. Lin Ke Tong definitely earned her first place.

Place 2: 王贝迪 representing 乌拉圭

For not having that infantile Hello Kitty smile 王贝迪 wins place #2. Despite being quite attractive, Wang Bei Di didn’t help Uruguay get a single goal against France last Friday. Cheer harder

Place 3: 邓伊桃 representing 阿根廷

邓伊桃’s legs are as long as 阿根廷 stretches along Southern America. Deng Yi Tao’s dark painted fingernails definitely win my heart and a third place.

Place 4: 黄蔼妍 representing 喀麦隆

A wild haircut saves 黄蔼妍 the fourth place. By selecting clothes better Huang Ai Yan could have done way better. Cameroon’s flag has three colors, not one.

Place 5: 段潇洁 representing 葡萄牙

段潇洁 offers 175cm of classic Chinese beauty. Can Cheerleader Duan Xiao Jie help Portugal win the Football Cup?

Credit: Sina’s collection of Chinese Football Babes. Check out all the hotties there. Each team has one.

Babi 2 Club in Chengdu, one of the best Chinese clubs I know.

To answer this question we have to look at Chinese values for a moment. Money ranks very high in the Chinese value system. Like it or not, a big wallet in China is an indicator of your importance in the society. In fact Chinese people mostly believe all white faces are rich. Surveys among Chinese women have show that money ranks among the most important factors for choosing a partner.

What does that have to do with sponsored drinks in China? If have accepted drinks more then once during your time in China, you may have observed something interesting. Sometimes it happens, sometimes not. This Chinese guy just offered you a drink. You accepted and he leaves the table. Only you and the ladies are left there at the table. What this guy did is, he just showed that he is economically superior and you are dependent on his beer (in a economical sense). While it may sound strange from the Western point of view, it makes quite sense from the Chinese viewpoint. What can be done?

If you plan to visit a certain location more than once you should consider buying your own drinks. Otherwise the lovely Chinese females may come to the conclusion that you really are a beggar and have no financial power. Another good idea is to visit two different places and dedicate one to get drunk, where you accept any drink offered, and another place where you pay for yourself and have a higher status.

So how to handle the situation? The best case is to have your own drink. The second best is the accept the drink immediately, smile, and say “Thanks dude”. The worst case is to say “no” for a while, only to give in afterwards and accept the drink. In this case you really subordinated yourself to the other guy and appear to be his tool. Don’t do that. I hope I could give some insight on Chinese nightlife to you. If you like to add something, feel free to comment. Cheers!

She is beautiful:

Wang Zi Fei, Student, Picture from Chinahush.

She is cute:

Choi Byul-I, Korean model. Picture from ReallyCuteAsians.net. Check out for more.

She is sexy:

Devon Aoki, 50% Japanese, 50% European, model and actress. Picture from Starts We Love. Check out for more! Thanks to Andhari for pointing at Devon Aoki in a recent comment at MKL.

Here is what I feel about the words beautiful, cute and sexy.

Beautiful: Her great looks give her a sense un-approachability. Her beauty makes her untouchable. I want to take a photo of her.

Cute: She looks like a funny pet. Cuddling comes to my mind.

Sexy: I want to have sex with her.

So tell me, what is attractiveness?

Attractiveness results of a combination of beauty, cuteness and sexiness. At least when looking at the superficial, physical side of things. There are other things like a sexy brain that make a woman attractive, but that is not part of this post. The most important factor for me at the moment is sexiness. I guess that’s like 50% for me. The other two get 25% each I guess. Devon Aoki is definitely attractive to me.

When is a woman attractive to You? Share Your thoughts

Sexy Taiwanese Model Fei Yang presenting the latest fashion in the store.

It’s not really a schoolgirl uniform, but it’s definitely worth every mao. So if you want to buy this breathtaking piece, head over to the online youa.baidu shop.

So there are only two questions left In case You know the correct Chinese characters for sexy Fei Yang, please leave a comment. And if You can help me set up an affiliate account with youa.baidu then get in contact with me through my contact page or leave a comment. I really appreciate that.

Forgot to buy a car insurance? Liu Mengjun repairing her car. Picture taken from Liu Mengjun’s blog. Check it out!

Liu Mengjun comments her own picture: “在开始的几年里，我几乎把所有的精力都投入到工作中，因为我自信” – “During the first years I practically put all the energy I had into work, because I had confidence (in what I do).” Awesome attitude!

Liu Mengjun is born in 1987年1月8日, so she should be 22 years by now. She seems to come from Anhui 安徽 province, at least she graduated from Anhui Art College (安徽艺术学院). But what’s more important is, she is not only cute, but also sexy. She made a few sets of pictures you can find on the internet. Her haircut stands out, it is way more open minded and makes clear this seductive lady knows what she wants. She has also posed in a few classic dresses, check it out:

Liu Mengjun knows how to dress sexy. Picture taken from Atwtg.com. Check out the full set there!

Liu Mengjun went to school as well, because she knows brains are sexy. Picture taken from Atwtg.com. Check out the full set there!

Have you taken your medicine? Chinese model Liu Mengjun working as a sexy nurse in a hospital. Picture taken from Atwtg.com. Check out the full set there!

This post is a first in a series to give more reasons, why learning Chinese is so important and why East Asia is a great place to live. But I don’t want to limit myself to the Chinese females. Hotties from Japan, Korea and other areas will get their well deserved space as well.

Rapidshare also offers a larger set of Liu Mengjun pictures http://rs341.rapidshare.com/files/167497124/Liu-Mengjun-208P.rar
If You search the net, you can get more results using her name in Chinese characters 刘梦君

In the article I was writing about my ideas for this summer and I also stated that I need a place which is… well can I say girl-friendly? I guess I just said that, so it’s on the table now I also said, that I’m looking for a place that has a bed big enough to serve as a playground.

This was enough for Hoeness, to raise his voice. He argues, that he sees many laowai who just come to China to get as much pussy as they can possibly get. There are fat, old and ugly laowai with beautiful Chinese women at their sides and the Chinese society doesn’t like the laowai just for such kind of reasons. Furthermore he feels that because of some laowais misbehaving, all laowai are judged in a negative way by the Chinese due to extrapolation. I agree, extrapolation is just a way of being economically, therefore a valid and acceptable behavior, yet it can lead to misunderstandings and should therefore be avoided.

Here the previous comments split into two plots.
(1)The problem is an inner problem of the laowai. Why would I listen to a Chinese person who says nasty words to me? In my opinion, it is not necessary to listen to people, who insult me, they are a waste of time. So if some Chinese have a problem with laowai coming to China and taking away their brides, why should I bother. Should I really respect people who insult me?

The other way of seeing it, is as following:
(2)The problem is an society problem and laowai are responsible for their colleagues. Laowai should not act like the kings and furthermore should refrain from activities that are all acceptable in Europe. I do agree, that bragging is a bad habit, but can be quite entertaining at times. Hoeness argues laowai should not misbehave in China (I’ll get back to this later), this means not have girlfriends that obviously don’t match, not engage in promiscuous behavior, etc if I got him right. He argues, that because of the behavior of some laowai, Chinese people look down on his own relationship with a Chinese woman.

And then there is the point about Chinese nationalism, racism and jealousy. I’ll get back to this one later in the article. At this point, let me get something clear, what I haven’t really talked about earlier on this blog, but something I want to make clear now.

About misbehaviour

People talk about misbehavior, they even agree to each other while using this term, but at the same time everyone has his or her own definition of misbehavior. So let’s get on with a definition first.

Junjie’s personal definition of misbehavior: Behaving in a way, that is insulting, threatening others or hurting others.

I definitely disagree, that I should refrain from activities in China, which are fine and widely acceptable in Europe. If my morals say it’s fine to have a One Night Stand, Swinger Party, whatever in Europe, then it’s also fine to do the same thing in China. In the named activities all parties mutually agree to participate, therefore no-one is insulted, threatened or hurt. As my definition of misbehavior is valid on any continent, well anywhere I could possibly travel to, I cannot see any fault in promiscuous behavior.

It has been pointed out, that such behavior promotes social diseases as AIDS and therefore hurts the Chinese society. My answer to this is, that everyone can buy a condom in almost any shop in China. Having sex without protection can be blamed on the non existent sexual education in Chinese schools and on the pope. Any responsible person uses protection, therefore the promiscuous behavior is not the source of the problem. And to praise myself, I’ve told quite some Chinese women about condoms, STDs, etc. so the Chinese government and health system should be thankful to me for doing their work.

Now what about the fat, ugly and old laowai with a young, beautiful mistress at his side? Who am I to judge them? If the age difference is 20 years and more then I guess it’s fine to make a joke about this unusual couple, but if they are happy together, why stop them? Last week here in Germany I saw a man with grey hair, partly bald, maybe 50 to 60 years old, entangled with a women in her late twenties. Once in a while I can see such unusual couple here in this mid sized German city. And yes, both participating parties were European. No-one would make a fuss about them here. Both parties bring something to the table, that the other person is seeking.

However there shouldn’t be a relationship, where one participating party gets abusive. For example if the male part asks for sexual favors the female part doesn’t like and the male part threatens to bring harm to her if she doesn’t agree. In an relationship both parties should state their expectations, before it becomes a serious thing. In the beginning it’s easy to express wishes and to say “yes” or “no” for any party.

Yes, Europeans do have an advantage in Asia

Yes, European men who go to Asia, especially China, do have an advantage there, because of our body shape. But this is not the only advantage we have. Europeans are more bold, open minded and mature. All characteristics women seek. Men really look for attractive women, but women look for a desirable character in men in the first place. Independent, confident, humorous, successful. So the fact that we Europeans are taller is only a small bonus that we have. Chinese men are often insecure, not-mature and sometimes even silly. Not all of them, but many. This is a result of the way they have been raised. Dormitories separated by genders? No wonder Chinese men don’t know how to behave properly when surrounded by women. Blame the Chinese government.

Of course Chinese men try to discourage the Chinese-Laowai relationship, so they have more women available to themselves. But hey, they should rather work on self improvement, instead of bashing others. Unfortunately they bad mouthing about laowai works, some women really do not want to engage in any activities with laoway, because of these stories. What a pitiful case. For self improvement check out Steve Pavlina. For becoming a player (in a positive sense), check out Sushi and Seduction, a blog written by Emergency, a guy from the USA, who has dedicated a part of his life to seducing Japanese women.

Some Chinese women want to have an short affair with a laowai, just to have a laowai experience. Laowai come to China to have fun. It’s all the same in Europe. Here it’s the southern European, especially Spanish, the Arabs, the Latinos, who take their fantasies into reality. And of course there are women who love to take part. I’ve rarely heard negative comments about such behavior. If I did, these comments were mostly of village people, who don’t travel much and have a conservative attitude in general. Why is it acceptable in Europe, but not in China? Double standards?

Nationalism, racism, jealousy

The Chinese government and media has figured this out as well. Most people need a common enemy to work together as a group. And the laowai are a thankful target. Aremonus has pointed out somewhere that there are a little less than 10000 laowai in Chengdu, a city which has about 10 million inhabitants. Thats 1 laowai for 1000 Chinese. It’s insane to blame the laowai. If You want to read more about Chinese nationalism, go to Justrecently’s blog and figure for Yourself.

Then there is this insane sex ratio of 100 women for 115 men in China (world: 100/105). Of course Chinese men have increased difficulties in finding a mate. But once again, the Chinese government and Chinese traditions are to blame. It’s some Chinese people who believe that it’s not worth to have a daughter. How sick is that? Here comes the laowai man and takes away even more women. But how can the Chinese man accuse Europeans of such behavior, if he at the same time goes to Vietnam, Laos and Cambodia to get a wife? Double standards?

The bottom line is, laowai are accused for things that are not their fault at all. Chinabounder has pointed out these issues on his highly disputed blog. I mostly agree with the issues he discussed, but I do not agree with the language he used to do so.

Conclusion
So I’ll hand the question back to my readers and commentators of the previous article.

(1) Am I, as a laowai, responsible for the aggressions of some narrow minded Chinese men? If yes, why?

(2) In case You think One Night Stands, promiscuous behavior, … is acceptable in Europe, then is it acceptable in China? If Your answer is “no”, why the difference?
In case You think One Night Stands, promiscuous behavior, … is not acceptable in any place (Europe and China), why do You think You could tell other people how to live their sexual life?

Comments may be written in German or English, but English preferred, as most of my readers are English speaking.

His sexstory blog called Sex and Shanghai had cause some disturbance among traditional Chinese people two years ago, when he wrote about his sexual adventures with Chinese women in the western oriented Chinese city Shanghai. For others he was just entertainment, but then his blog at some point became private and only invited people could see it. From that point most people forgot about him and his adventures and now, two years later, Chinabounder writes a new book called 50 Reasons Why China May Never Be Great.

While the topic of his original blog was quite interesting and I enjoyed reading it, his writing style was lacking at that time. Hopefully he improved. So far I haven’t read his book, but I consider to have a look at it in the future.

Although criticised a lot, David Marriot aka. Chinabounder did something right. Getting a book deal is not easy today, so his initial effort paid of. First he wrote a blog people would criticise. By doing this he branded his name Chinabounder. Now people know if he writes a book it will be controversial. People still prefer controversial topics or controversial viewpoints instead of boring mainstream. 12% of all visitors of Yolearnchinese visited my only slightly controversial article A Chinese Woman will improve Your Chinese so far, some people commented as well. While I didn’t expect that when I wrote the article in the first place, I’m very happy that I did. Lesson learned. Be Controversial.

Notice to self: Write more controversial articles!

I can hardly understand why people disliked Chinabounder’s blog, which is open to the public again. He only wrote about things that happen every day all over the world. Sex blogs exist in the western world, far more explicit that Chinabounder’s blog, however no one really cares. Maybe the Chinese just don’t want to tell anyone what’s going on inside the country. In China everyone, especially women, tell You they’re traditional. Maybe traditional means shy on the outside, wild on the inside. So far I can backup this theory by my small knowledge about Chinese culture.

You don’t believe? Hook up with a Chinese woman and see for Yourself.

Causeway bay waterfront.

Many modern, expensive buildings can be found on Hong Kong Island for the upmarket people.

Once again I’m on the peak, always a nice view.