A Chinese woman will improve Your Chinese
November 27, 2007 – 12:00 am
What is Your motivation to learn Chinese? Basically there are only 3 Motivations:
1. Chinese woman
2. Making business in China
3. Some cultural interest
If You are in the first group then You probably have a Chinese girlfriend already. If not then hesitate no longer. If You are in group 2 or 3 then I have to tell You: A Chinese woman can help You a lot to improve Your Chinese. Maybe You like to do some business in China, however speaking the language is essential. You will be scammed, raped, [insert other bad thing here] from You business partners if You have no clue what they are talking. A Chinese woman will help You learn the language as she is interested in You earning lots of money. She will benefit from that. After these words I’m pretty sure now that You got the point.
By the way, You should get a Chinese girlfirend, not marry. I’m not a marriage advice, however marriage can wait. Actually marriage will bring many kids to You and end Your career, so don’t rush it.
Here are the major advantages of a Chinese woman in Your life:
- You will learn lots of real life Chinese
- Learn the whole week for no charge at all
- Have a beautiful woman at Your side
- Asian woman cook great food compared to European
If European woman are reading this post at the moment, I feel sorry for You, but from my experience I can say that Chinese learners are 90% male, so I will focus on this group.
Where can I find an Asian woman?
In case You are already in China You can just go on the street and skip the rest of this article.
If You are not in China at the moment read on. One of the best bets is of course a notice boards in an university. Often several Chinese woman post notices for a language exchange. There are lots of Chinese woman in Your town fresh of the boat who need someone to learn the language of Your country.Often there are many Asian Ladies on a campus. Just chat one up. Ni hao! There You go.
Another good spot is the shopping center of Your town. You can start a conversation with any of the woman You see. Other places might be some language school for immigrants or Your local Asian food store.
Finally You could use some online dating site. I prefer the real life method, however when I’m busy the whole day and have only half an hour in the evening then this is the place to write some messages. Start out with Myspace, Facebook or Friendster. But I really want to warn You. Online dating sites are probably just a big amount of wasted time, sometimes even wasted money, although paid pages like Asianfriendfinder claim otherwise.
If You are interested in learning Chinese, get a Chinese woman and abandon Your Caucasian one. Your new acquaintance will be overly happy if You learn her language and will talk to You endlessly. No need to talk anymore… but You need to talk too… just to practice. Great fun! Learning a language is very efficient when You speak and listen to it on a daily basis.
Some people may tell me, that they are too shy. No problem guys. Dating a Chinese woman or any woman is no mystery at all. Just act they way You are. Don’t be scared and say what You think. Chinese woman are looking for a strong man like any other woman on this planet. If You are even interested in here culture You even get a plus. Happy dating!
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12 Responses to “A Chinese woman will improve Your Chinese”
I think you have the right motivation…just looking at the photo, you are really in to this Chinese girl thing…Hope you can be fluent in Chinese…
By nimrodjo on Nov 29, 2007
Thanks for Your comment nimrodjo
I think these two Ladies and many other Chinese women are pretty beautiful. Connecting with this kind of woman enriches my life in many ways.
To show my respect to them I really want to talk in Chinese to them. Not in English or some other language.
By YoLearnChinese on Nov 29, 2007
I prefer to learn Mandarin Chinese, because it is the language which sounds nice, it is the language which is spoken by most people. It is the language, which has potential to influence the future. I learn Mandarin from http://www.hellomandarin.net Anyone who is interested in Chinese can join me.
By danny on Dec 8, 2007
Hi. Did you actually use asiafriendfinder… i find it weird ppl have to hook up online.
good luck, this is my 2nd year of learning mandarin at a saturday school in Canada. I’m ethnic Chinese but don’t know it =)
By Albert on Feb 18, 2008
No, I didn’t use it.
because I get paid for the promotion.
But I try my best to promote it
I think going to some place in real life is more efficient. However some people want to go the online way, so there is a link.
By Junjie on Feb 22, 2008
Whatsup?
Im new here so just wanted to introduce myself.
My name is Damitri and im from California and… umm i love to smoke hookah and blow os.
lol anyways.. Nice to meet you guys.
By jdogsmit on Mar 20, 2008
FUCKING MISOGYNIST COUNTER-FEMINIST CREEPS
By linda on Aug 1, 2008
First of all, ‘LINDA’ - Get a friggin life and a clue!
Secondly, thanks for the advice posted here - I would really like to meet a Chinese lady and learn the language. My heart is telling me that this is what I want to do and your article here is a good start!
Ignore the idiots that keep posting here, they obviously spend too much time behind their keyboards!
By Bernie on Aug 27, 2008
Be very careful. They will ask for money. probably for a sick family member. The real winners will manage to get a house for all their efforts. After that they will say good-bye
By Rob on Feb 21, 2009
Hi Rob,
just screen the Lady You desire, then You can weed out the gold diggers early. Never had problems with that. Some Ladies even paid my meals, hotel stays etc. to keep them company. I’m really positively surprised with Chinese Ladies.
By Junjie on Feb 21, 2009
I’m happily in love with a chinese girl from Malayisia… I think Malaysian, Singaporean and Taiwanese (+ HK) Chinese girls are the best! Try there, people are much more openminded and dating a foreigner is less of a problem. Plus I like the ’southern mandarin’ spoken there (except HK), instead of ‘zhe shi yi ge zhong guo ren’ they say ‘ze si yi ge zong guo ren’ - so cute!
By Nino on Mar 13, 2009
Hi. I just did a google search for “chinese woman” because my friend is an adviser to the prime minister of China. I have so far learned to pronounce chi-neeeese and say a rough sounding thank you in mandarin.
I have my passport and maybe go over with Jimmy and his wife. He showed me pictures of both of his mansions and they are like total royalty.
We have plans for developing new technologies together.
I forget where the mansions are located but I’m guessing near the central government city, wherever that is?
What I would like to do is develop a stong income and secure myself at Jimmy’s mansion, one or the other, and then marry three chinese women around age 25. I am age 36 and I am not bad to look at.
Will chinese men be angry at me for having three chinese wives because I am caucasian?
Caucasians got their names around 700 A.D. when Assyrians improsined the israelites and placed them in the Caucass Mountains. So, I am actually a distant son of Isaac the son of Abraham mentioned in middle eastern texts. French and Irish lineage from there.
What do you think? Will I be able to receive acceptance from the men in China?
Please send your reply directly to my email address. Thank you for such an informative web log.
Michael
By Michael on Apr 5, 2009