Junjie’s China blog

A Chinese woman will improve Your Chinese

What is Your motivation to learn Chinese? Basically there are only 3 Motivations:

1. Chinese woman

2. Making business in China

3. Some cultural interest

If You are in the first group then You probably have a Chinese girlfriend already. If not then hesitate no longer. If You are in group 2 or 3 then I have to tell You: A Chinese woman can help You a lot to improve Your Chinese. Maybe You like to do some business in China, however speaking the language is essential. You will be scammed, raped, [insert other bad thing here] from You business partners if You have no clue what they are talking. A Chinese woman will help You learn the language as she is interested in You earning lots of money. She will benefit from that. After these words I’m pretty sure now that You got the point.

By the way, You should get a Chinese girlfirend, not marry. I’m not a marriage advice, however marriage can wait. Actually marriage will bring many kids to You and end Your career, so don’t rush it.

Here are the major advantages of a Chinese woman in Your life:

• You will learn lots of real life Chinese
• Learn the whole week for no charge at all
• Have a beautiful woman at Your side
• Asian woman cook great food compared to European

If European woman are reading this post at the moment, I feel sorry for You, but from my experience I can say that Chinese learners are 90% male, so I will focus on this group.

Where can I find an Asian woman?

In case You are already in China You can just go on the street and skip the rest of this article.

If You are not in China at the moment read on. One of the best bets is of course a notice boards in an university. Often several Chinese woman post notices for a language exchange. There are lots of Chinese woman in Your town fresh of the boat who need someone to learn the language of Your country.Often there are many Asian Ladies on a campus. Just chat one  up. Ni hao! There You go.

Another good spot is the shopping center of Your town. You can start a conversation with any of the woman You see. Other places might be some language school for immigrants or Your local Asian food store.

Finally You could use some online dating site. I prefer the real life method, however when I’m busy the whole day and have only half an hour in the evening then this is the place to write some messages. Start out with Myspace, Facebook or Friendster. But I really want to warn You. Online dating sites are probably just a big amount of wasted time, sometimes even wasted money, although paid pages like Asianfriendfinder claim otherwise.

If You are interested in learning Chinese, get a Chinese woman and abandon Your Caucasian one. Your new acquaintance will be overly happy if You learn her language and will talk to You endlessly. No need to talk anymore… but You need to talk too… just to practice. Great fun! Learning a language is very efficient when You speak and listen to it on a daily basis.

Some people may tell me, that they are too shy. No problem guys. Dating a Chinese woman or any woman is no mystery at all. Just act they way You are. Don’t be scared and say what You think. Chinese woman are looking for a strong man like any other woman on this planet. If You are even interested in here culture You even get a plus. Happy dating!

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